Words of encouragement

Why do we care about what others think and say about us? Why do we try to prove a point to get credit from others when they assume things concerning us? Why do we explain ourselves to others when it comes to our daily lives or how we perform things in a certain way? Why do we hurt when people judge us? For one, people judge because they have no life, they have mess in their own lives so they point the finger at you to get the attention off themselves. Overall, people judge because they haven't been caught yet whoops lol. At the end of the day, we know what's best for us concerning decisions and choices, we all are accountable for ourselves. People do not have a heaven or a hell to put you in, so why give them attention where attention shouldn't be granted. Also, why do we depend on others to love us, encourage us, and to fulfill that emptiness inside? We have to provide that for ourselves because if you seek for others to do it you are going to be in for a rude awaking because that has to come within not by another person. It may feel good for the moment but eventually it will run out and then what are you going to do? Basically nothing, but end up looking pitiful and no one will be the blame but you. Remember, to whoever reading this you are beautiful and special. Stay encouraged and expect nothing but great things to come into your life! Much love!!